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QUESTION #1 : Are there other websites where I can learn about Noahism and the Seven Commandments for Righteous
Gentiles? |
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QUESTION #4(a) : What is the responsibility of a Noahide concerning charity? What are the appropriate
actions concerning this? ANSWER : The MINIMUM responsibility of a Noahide to give charity is that if someone approaches you for charity
because he is in need of a basic necessity of life - i.e. to stay alive - you have an obligation to give him the
money or food, for example, that he needs to survive at that time. So if someone comes to you who is starving,
you are obligated to provide him with a meal. If someone comes to you who is seriously injured, you are obligated
to help him get to a hospital. In the time of Abraham, the people of Sodom refused to do even this minimal amount,
and that is one of sins for which they were destroyed by G-d. Beyond that, there is really no limit to the amount
of charity that a Noahide can decide to give, but one's actions should of course be governed by what is intellectually
proper. One should not impoverish oneself to give charity, because that would be placing the extra burden of one
more poor person or family on society. A Jew on the other hand has a Torah commandment to give charity. A Jewish
person of average generosity generally sets his goal at giving 10% of his income. QUESTION #4(b) : What is the difference between tithes and charity? Are Noahides required to tithe? ANSWER : The Torah commandments for tithing are required for Jews who grow produce and livestock within
the biblical Land of Israel, during times when the Holy Temple in Jerusalem is built and functioning, and the Jewish
priests (kohanim, descended from Aaron) are purified to perform the Temple service (may this be reinstated speedily
in our days through the Messianic Redemption!) QUESTION #4(c) : I want to share the blessings that G-d give me, by giving tzedaka [charity] to my local Orthodox
shul [synogogue]. Can I also give cologne and chocolate to the Rabbi? ANSWER : It is very generous of you to think of sending charity to the shul, and it is OK for you to do that. I suggest that you send it to the attention of the Rabbi, with a note explaining that it is from you, and why you were motivated to send it. On the other hand, your idea to send gifts to the Rabbi, such as cologne or chocolate, is not really appropriate. Most Rabbis are uncomfortable about receiving gifts. Giving charity is more appropriate and more appreciated, and you also earn the merit for doing the mitzvah. |
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QUESTION #6 : Do you have any of the flyers, brochures, cards or bumper stickers made up? Let me know. |
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QUESTION #7 : Some groups cite Isaiah 65:11-12, "But you who have forsaken G-d, who have forgotten My holy
mountain, who set a table for Gad, who fill a libation to Meni -," as showing that
gambling is displeasing to G-d. Does this include the purchase of lotto tickets and/or raffle tickets, even
if sold by charities for raising funds for the needy, etc.? Please can you give me the view as relating to the
Children of Noah? In regard to gambling: the person who wins at gambling along the lines of poker games, wagers on sporting events and horse races, etc., is boardering on or crossing the line of theft. Even though the losers choose to enter the game for whatever reason, they really don't want to give up their money. And they really do want to take the other person's money, even though the other person doesn't want that. So that type of gambling should not be done. (It is also recognized as a sign of low morality.) But it is OK to buy raffle tickets to support a proper ( ! ) charity (for example, charities that advance the condition of people in the world, but not charities that lead people astray after false religions). It is very common for proper charitable institutions to hold raffles for fundraising. The main intent of the person who buys a raffle ticket is on donating, regardless of whether or not he will win the raffle. And even if that is not the intent, the practical result is that he gave charity. |
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QUESTION #11 : I am learning the importance of doing work in the community as an essential part of my life as
a Noahide. Do I now need to make inquiries as to whom and where I can go to be of any assistance in any way at
all? ANSWER : Yes, because the charities you support and volunteer for should not involve missionizing for a false religion. One of the main accomplishments which G-d desires from the Children of Noah is to work at "yishuv olam" - making the world a "settled place," where everyone is better able to meet their personal needs and concerns in an easy way, and in accordance with G-d's Will. The end result of this cooperation is that the world will more quickly become a proper place for G-d to reveal Himself and to dwell together with us openly in this physical world. And when the future Messianic Era (may it come immediately!) culminates in the everlasting World to Come, this will be even more than He was dwelling in the Garden of Eden with Adam and Hava on the first day of their creation! |
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QUESTION #16 : Would taking a sweater that been in our stock room for 2 months, and probably belonged to an associcate
that quit, be considered theft? ANSWER : The best thing would be for you or someone else to try to contact the probable owner of the sweater and return the item if it does belong to that person. If it's impossible to contact the owner, find out if there is a lost-and-found, and take it there in case the owner called in or will call in about the lost sweater. If there is no lost-and-found, contact whoever in the company the owner would call to try to retrieve the sweater, and discuss what should be done with it. |
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QUESTION #17 : Is reading at work (your recommended books) something G-d would frown upon? (It's very slow in
my department.) ANSWER : If you have free time on your hands, reading the books that are recommended for Noahides would be a good way to make good use of the time. Time is precious and you should try make the best use of it. |
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QUESTION #18(a) : Do Noahides celebrate Easter, Christmas, 4th of July, etc.? I am searching. There are not many
books that can answer my questions. QUESTION #18(b) : I read on the internet that the Noahides can celebrate Passover, not in the Jewish way, but with
some changes. Is this true? And if it is, how can I celebrate it? |
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COMMENT #21 : The 7 Commandments are primarily a moral code. Now a moral code is critically important. However,
for many individuals there needs to be more; they need what is commonly rolled up in the term "religion."
Worship, prayer, fellowship. Especially the last may be important for some people as a support for all the rest.
However, I suppose that serious Noahide groups, with effective rabbinical guidance, are not yet plentiful. If there
is no such group where one lives, acceptance and living of the 7 Commandments may be harder. |
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QUESTION #22 : I often see the abbreviation BS"D at the top of Torah-related web pages or emails. I am not
familiar with this. |
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QUESTION #23 : How can or should a Noahide wedding be conducted? |
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QUESTION #24 : How should Noahides be buried, and how should they mourn relatives/friends, G-d forbid? |
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QUESTION #25 : Are Noahites permitted to observe the Jewish mitzvot (commandments) regarding
the Jewish Shabbath and Holy Days, tallit and mezuzah? If yes, which mitzvot are totally forbidden
to them (I would guess the Passover lamb, for example)? |
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QUESTION #26(a) : How should Noahites celebrate the birth of children? ANSWER : The birth of a child should definitely be a happy occasion for the parents, since the child is the physical testimony to their fulfillment of G-d's directive to be fruitful and multiply (Gen. 1:28) and to unite as "one flesh" (Gen. 2:24; i.e. the flesh of the mother and father becomes physically one within their child). It is incumbent on the parents to pray to G-d for a speedy and complete recovery for the mother after childbirth, and for the good health of their newborn child. Father-to-son descendants of Abraham and Keturah have an additional obligation of circumcision on their 8th day. NEW QUESTION #26(b) : Is it OK for
a non-Jew to have a Bar Mitzvah? I've been told yes by some, and by others no it's not nessasary, because they
are obligated to 7 laws from birth, so nothing changes when they turn 13. ANSWER : The 13th birthday for a Gentile boy and the 12th birthday for a Gentile girl are significant, because
as a general rule that is the time that they reach sufficient intellectual maturity to become personally responsible
for keeping the 7 Noahide Commandments according to Torah Law. It is certainly OK for a Noahide boy or girl to
mark this significant birthday with family and or friends, with a happy but serious emphasis on his/her new status Sichos in English published an essay based on talks which the Rebbe gave about the importance of birthday celebrations for both Jews and Gentiles. We have edited this slightly to make it more clearly relevant to Gentiles (see text page BIRTHDAYS or listen to Audio). |
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QUESTION #30 : I've heard that for Gentiles the ethnic identity goes through the paternal line. But Jewishness
is passed down through the mother. Doesn't this mean that even for Gentiles, the ethnic identity goes through the
mother and the maternal line? |
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QUESTION #31 : Are Noachides required to love their neighbor as (much as) they love themselves? |
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QUESTION #33 : Are Noachides required to eat animal foods, or are they merely permitted to abstain and eat
a vegetarian diet?
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QUESTION #35 : I just saw an interview on TV of Madonna defining Kabbalah. On TV they said it predates organized
religion, that it's very spiritual and scientific and it (as Madonna put it), has the order and key to the universe
that shows you how to live your life to make the world a better place. Is this West-Coast Kabbalah? I was surprised
that there was little talk of G-d. I would think that spiritualism is only good if the emphasis is on G-d's spirit
instead of Man's spirit. |
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QUESTION #39 : I would very much like to know the Torah teaching regarding mediumship. It is my understanding
that it is forbidden. I am asking because it turns out that a number of people on an on-line forum I belong to
are practicing mediums. This does not sit well with me, and I will be leaving this list. But I would like to know
more about the Torah teaching on this.
The Torah-Law sources in Mishneh Torah and Shulchan Aruch are cited there. |
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QUESTION #41(a) : REGARDING THE SABBATH - I've always understood that the Sabbath observance was given in the
Garden of Eden and it is incumbent upon all mankind to keep it, and that the commandment to remember the Sabbath
refers to this earlier time. From what I understand, you believe that Noachides are not commanded to observe the
Sabbath? QUESTION #41(b) : The fourth commandment of the 10 Commandments for the Jews says the seventh day is the Sabbath.
How do the Jews know the Sabbath is on Saturday? |
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QUESTION #42 : Should a Noahide man wear a full beard and a kippah (head covering)? |
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QUESTION #43(a) : What does the Torah teach about organ donation? Is there are any difference between Jews and Noahides?
I was asked to sign an organ donation card, and I don't know if I should do that. QUESTION #43(b) : What is the thought (according to Torah Law) about donating blood? |
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QUESTION #44 : If Gentile half-brothers and half-sisters whose common parent of origin is their father are biblically
permitted to marry, then why can't they legally marry in the U.S. -- or any other civilized nation within proximity? |
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QUESTION #45 : Do Noahides follow the entire Tenach or only a portion of the Holy Scriptures? |
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QUESTION #46 : WHY DO YOU NOT SPELL OUT "G-O-D"? Something wrong with that? |
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QUESTION #47 : Is a Noahide permitted to join a secret fraternal society, or to take an oath of the nature that
they take? |
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QUESTION #50 : I want to learn Hebrew so I can understand the Hebrew Bible for myself. I don't trust translations.
How do I start? ANSWER : If your interest is in getting a better understanding of the Hebrew scriptures, a much more effective, quick and practical way to accomplish that would be to use editions from Orthodox Jewish publishing houses. Many are printed in both Hebrew and English, with traditional and reliable translations and basic commentaries. These can usually be obtained on-line from the publishers. We recommend the Artscroll Hebrew Bible (Stone Edition) - http://www.artscroll.com/Books/stgs.html For more advanced Noahide learning (under the guidance of a Rabbi or a mentor), a knowledge of the Hebrew alphabet can be useful: 1) To better understand the One Above, and thus to better establish one's faith in Him, one needs to understand how He brings the Heaven and Earth in being. This is through His "Divine Speech," which is His use of His creative powers which are represented by the Hebrew letters. Each letter represents a creative process, and the combinations of these forces into new patterns ("words" of Divine Speech) brings the heavenly and physical worlds and beings into existence, and at the same time conceals the "upper" realms and beings from those that are "lower." Since Chassidic discourses that explain this process use metaphors of Hebrew letters, it useful to learn these letters so you can better follow the explanations. See for example the audio series "Nothing Besides Him," by Rabbi Manis Friedman. Another important part of better understanding G-d is to learn the Chassidic discourses that explain the meaning and symbolism of His Divine Names, which are all in Hebrew. 2) The Noahide prohibition of blasphemy applies especially to improper use of G-d's Divine Hebrew Names, so it is important to know what they are and under what circumstances it is permissible to use them. |
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QUESTION #53 : Is there advice given on what would help a Noahide to avoid transgressing the commandment against
idolatry? ANSWER : To avoid idolatry, it is first of all very important to develop a mindset which is focused on the One True G-d. During your times of prayer and Torah study, you should actively meditate on how G-d is One and Unique, and that although He and His attributes transcend the capability of comprehension of any created being, He also invests his Permeating G-dliness within the created spiritual and physical realms and beings, to be the constant Source of their life and existence. (This is a matter that logic dictates, since the rule of logic that "nothing makes itself" brings one to recognize that Someone created the universe and runs everything within it.) One should also be familiar with the misunderstandings which can lead great numbers of people to fail to reject false notions which they don't recognize as idolatrous. It may be helpful for you to review from time to time our web page BIG MISTAKE. (Keep in mind that the sin of deifying the "stars and planets" applies also to deification of any angel, soul, or other created being or force in creation, as well as the ascribing of any type of multiplicity or physical form to G-d, Heaven forbid.) For the practical details of the definition of idolatry and how to serve G-d by avoiding idolatry in your daily life, you should be very familiar with the rules for Righteous Gentiles regarding both idolatry and blasphemy (since idolatrous doctrines can also be blasphemous). You'll find our on-line forum sections on the prohibitions of idolatry and blasphemy to be very helpful. Also see the codified details of these prohibitions in the book "The Divine Code," Volume 1, by Rabbi Moshe Weiner. |
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QUESTION #54 : How should a Gentile relate to Rosh Hashana, the Jewish New Year?
On Rosh Hashana G-d makes a judgement on all His creations and decides what will befall them during the coming year. However, human beings uniquely are given the opportunity for repentance, so that harsh aspects (G-d forbid!) of the judgement on a person can be averted, and even turned into additional blessings. This can be achieved through repentance, prayers, and gifts to the needy. It is very appropriate that as much of one's free time as possible during the 2 days of Rosh Hashana should be spent saying prayers from the Book of Psalms. One should be humbled by the significance of these days, but at the same time they should be approached with a confident faith and trust in G-d, and joy in His closeness to those who desire and seek His closeness through His Torah of Truth. |
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QUESTION #61 : Was there ever a stated time at which preparations for Passover were
to begin, for a Jew to get rid of the leaven from his household? Was there not once a requirment for this to be
done 10 days in advance? |
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QUESTION #63 : I am a Noahide, and I am now living in fear because of the many unusually severe disasters that have been affecting the world recently, beginning with the horrific tsunami. I am wholly devoted to G-d, Torah and Israel, although I have never met a Jewish person to my knowledge. I learn in the Chassidic tradition, and I try to walk a path of humility, and service and kindness to others. It's painful to be so afraid - even more for my Noahide children than for myself. What should I do? ANSWER : Please keep in mind the verses, "Do not fear sudden terror, nor the destruction of the wicked when it comes" (Prov. 3:25), and "Indeed, the righteous will extol your Your Name; the upright will dwell in Your presence" (Psalms 140:14). You can conclude your prayers with these verses every day. Think good and it will be good - deal with the present in practical terms, and don't let your imagination or your speech about possible future personal or global disasters run wild. We learn this lesson from the error of Moses, who suffered a hardship as a result of becoming afraid (Ex. 2:14-15). Know that FAITH and TRUST in Hashem in the face of anything that happens are extremely special ways of serving Him, which can bring protective merit to you, regardless of whether or not you have repented for past transgressions of the Noahide Commandments (but repentance does help). In fact, you should anticipate revealed good in the very near future, since we are now witnessing the fulfillment of the prophecy to the Jewish People regarding the Final Redemption, "As in the days of your going out of Egypt, I will show you wonders" (Michah 7:15). I.e., wonders compared to the 10 Plagues and the Splitting of the Sea, by which G-d struck down the Egyptians and their idols for their cruelty and unbounded hatred of the Jews. Since the Jewish People and the hatred of them are scattered over the entire world, these wonderous events are occuring in many places around the globe. Futhermore, the physical Earth is convulsing, because it was created to hide G-dliness but now it is being commanded by G-d to start revealing the G-dliness of the Messianic Era. To the extent that you are able, you should continue to be involved in doing acts of goodness and kindness for others, since that is promised to be a personal shield against the Birthpangs of the Messiah, which are now occurring. In the words of the Rebbe, who prophetically foresaw and explained all of this, "Everything that occurs in the world, even the apparent bad, such as natural disasters, must ultimately have redeeming good." |
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QUESTION #64 : The inn I work at is sometimes patronized by secular Jewish couples. Most of them have asked me help them find restaurants in this town (none of which are kosher). Am I allowed to help them find such restaurants? ANSWER : Here are some things to consider as less worse alternatives: You can tell them how far away is the closest kosher restaurant. If they aren't willing to travel that far, it is thank G-d very common for regular grocery stores and supermarkets to have a kosher section. You can find out which one locally has the best kosher section, and present that to them as an option. In leiu of that, you can find out if there are any non-kosher vegetarian restaurants, which may present fewer transgressions of the Jewish dietary commandments. |
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QUESTION #69 : Can women wear a kipa? ANSWER : It is seriously discouraged for Gentile or Jewish women to wear a kipa (Hebrew for yarmulke = skull cap), as it is a sign of religious rebeliousness. Only men and boys should wear a kipa. Unmarried women do not need a hair covering, and married Jewish women should use a covering over all of their natural hair (a scarf, a "snood", a wig, etc.) when they are out in public or in the presence of men other than their husband. Married Gentile women who wish to go in the path of righteousness and humility before G-d can also follow this practice, but they are not required to do so. |
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QUESTION #71 : Is it okay to give gifts other than "gelt" (money) for Hanukkah? And if so where did
giving gifts during this festival originate from? What relevance does it have in the celebration? ANSWER : It is not forbidden per se, but it is not recommended for Jews or Noahides. It was unfortunately copied due to perceived pressure from the prevailing custom of chr'stmas gifts in the chr'stian societies that Jews have been exiled in. It has no relevance to the traditional observance, and it distracts from appreciating the spiritual message of Hanukkah. But it helps Judaica stores to turn a profit at the end of the secular year. Note: it's important for Jews who do give "Hanukkah gifts" to observe their required restrictions on the one or two Shabbos days that always fall within the eight days of Hanukkah. Jews should be careful not to give or receive gifts on Shabbos, except for the purposes of Shabbos, since it is a legal transaction (transfer of ownership). If the presentation of a gift to a Jew anyway takes place on Shabbos, the recipient should have the intention not to acquire ownership of the gift until after the Shabbos is over. For Jewish children under the age of Bar or Bas Mitzvah, one could argue after the fact that their father or his wife, or one of their siblings, could halachically ("according to Torah Law") give them a gift on Shabbos because they are religious minors, and according to Torah law all their possessions really belong to their father anyway (but certainly the Jewish child would be learning a wrong message). Most certainly Jews must not give "gelt" (money) during Shabbos. |
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