11-05-2014, 02:15 PM
Every person (except the few who are perfectly righteous) is given an evil inclination, along with the ability to control it and chose to do what's right. However, the evil inclination is especially successful in people who don't know or who don't accept the boundaries of what is right and what is wrong in G-d's eyes. I assume that your friend is not Jewish. Then the biggest cruelty she is committing is that she is leading or facilitating the Jewish man to sin against his Father in Heaven, by doing something which the Torah says he is forbidden to do, thus making his soul liable to punishment. It is cruel to cause harm to another person physically, and how much more so spiritually. Maybe you can explain this to her, so she will break off her intimate relationship with him and explain to him that she's doing it for his own good, because as a Jew. he should only be looking for a Jewish woman (wife).